Subject: feeling tempted by the flesh and a
bit shitty
Content: I have been a christian for 10
years and just recently I have been tempted to act like I did
before I became a christian and worse. Impure thoughts etc. I have
listened to a tape of readings of Romans. I'll probably listen to
all of Paul's letters and be careful of letting my thoughts dwell
on the unhelpful. Any tips? It's been useful putting my thoughts
on paper. I enjoyed looking round your website especially the
jokes!
Best wishes to you both. Phillipians 4:23.
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Response
Thanks for the message. Glad you enjoyed the site, and the
jokes.
I'm not sure I can offer anything much that will be short and
not sound either harsh or a bit flippant, but here goes...
The very short responses to your two issues:
You are feeling tempted by the flesh. Of course you are -
what did you expect? Jesus was tempted (remember Gethsemane?), so
why shouldn't you be? Did you think that after ten years you
would be past temptation? It doesn't work that way.
Why do you feel it now? There could be various reasons -
spiritual attack, increasing spiritual maturity and hence
sensitivity, changes to your hormonal levels, etc. Bottom line -
what does it matter? You know now, like you did ten years ago,
that all temptation is based on a lie (it is *never* a good idea
to sin), so hold onto God's love and His truth. Avoid temptation
when you can, resist it when you have to, get help and
encouragement as you need it. I'll pray for you, but talking to
your Pastor, Housegroup Leader or whoever would usually be a good
idea.
Please remember: it is not a sin to be tempted, no matter how
bad the thing you are being tempted to do. You could look at it
the other way round - perhaps God knows you are strong enough to
handle these temptations now, whereas before, you would not have
managed it. As we grow, our temptations may well change; they
will often become more subtle; but they never just go away.
You are feeling a bit shitty. Maybe related to the former
point, but maybe not. The one thing we can be sure about feelings
is that they will change. Be sensible - don't try to push
yourself too hard when you are not feeling okay, but don't use it
as an excuse to avoid what you know you should be doing.
The key question is: are you doing something to make yourself
feel bad? If so, then see what needs to change. If not, then all
you can do is to hang on in there until your feelings change
again. They will.